No Doubt - A Simple Kind of Life
A Simple Kind of Life was released by the rock band No Doubt in the early 2000's. The video features the lead singer wanting a "simple kind of life." We see through the video that her life is anything but simple. The song starts out with the words, "For a long time I was in love. Not only in love, I was obsessed. With a friendship that no one else could touch. It didn't work out." The lyrics paired with the image of the girl on screen walking away from her former love in a wedding gown depicts that she had wanted to marry this man but as she says it, "didn't work out." She says shortly following, "All I needed was a simple man, so I could be a wife." We understand as viewers that she is looking for a husband, but by dissecting her words, we hear that she doesn't really care who the man is, she just wants to be a wife. This is reinforced by the video clipping to her on a couch with another "love" of hers.
She continues to the second verse with this second male. She says, "I'm so ashamed, I've been so mean
I don't know how it got to this point." This indicates that these people are failed relationships. It's interesting to note that not only does she mention these relationships, but more so she focuses the song on herself. She's expressing her own actions within the relationship and trying to figure out how the simple notion of wanting a simple life is harder than it had always seemed.
One of the last verses she is featured with the third love interest. She's sitting on a chair and he's sitting down next to her in front of a drum. He sips some of his drink and then hands it to her to hold while he drums. She looks sad and sings, "I always thought I'd be a mom. Sometimes I wish for a mistake
The longer that I wait the more selfish that I get. You seem like you'd be a good dad." With the last statement she smiles and he gets up and moves to a bigger drum set. This last verse we see that she yearns to be a mom and wants to have a child. The men she's with obviously don't want one. She says that sometimes she wishes for a mistake, meaning a pregnancy.
The next scene in the video goes into her (in a wedding dress) and the three men (all in tuxes) walking underneath a helicopter. She is stumbling in her dress and sings the last verse, "Now all those simple things are simply too complicated for my life. How'd I get so faithful to my freedom? A selfish kind of life. When all I ever wanted was the simple things. A simple kind of life." All she wants is a family and a baby or a "simple life," but as we can see in this verse these things are too complicated for her life. If she focused on loving the men she was with instead of only thinking of herself and her life then maybe she would have that simple life she always dreamt of. She asks, "How did I get so faithful to my freedom?" meaning how did she keep trying to be free and fight for herself if all she wanted was to be surrounded by a family.
At the end of the video the woman finds a baby and looks around to the different "husband" characters as if to chose a father. She runs away and hands the baby to her mother. Then walks away.
Using the music perspective we can see the music sounds displacent and sad for the most part with upbeat parts intermixed. It has a release pattern for most of the song, but fades into a few release patterns for added effect. This effect creates a congruent message where the emotion of the song in lyrics follows it in musical tone.
The song is targeted to both women and men. Young girls are targeted because they want to be and look like the girl first portrayed as in love. Mothers and wives are targeted because that is what the girl wants to be so badly in the video. Single women are targeted as well because that's the way the girl ends up. Men are targeted throughout the video mostly to view the woman in the video. At one point shes topless and covered in glitter contributing greatly to the sex drive and appeal to men. I think the video is also appealing to men because it shows how men are pressured to have kids by their significant others.
Some of the potential messages being communicated to the audience within this video may be, the question of having children, the question of being too selfish in a relationship, the sanctity of marriage or perhaps how to pursue the right mate. All in all the potentical implication I see within this video is not to marry who you are unsure of being able to achieve a simple life with. By doing so three times the woman is expressing that by wasting her time on the men that were not right for her she acted selfishly and now doesn't have a family.
She continues to the second verse with this second male. She says, "I'm so ashamed, I've been so mean
I don't know how it got to this point." This indicates that these people are failed relationships. It's interesting to note that not only does she mention these relationships, but more so she focuses the song on herself. She's expressing her own actions within the relationship and trying to figure out how the simple notion of wanting a simple life is harder than it had always seemed.
One of the last verses she is featured with the third love interest. She's sitting on a chair and he's sitting down next to her in front of a drum. He sips some of his drink and then hands it to her to hold while he drums. She looks sad and sings, "I always thought I'd be a mom. Sometimes I wish for a mistake
The longer that I wait the more selfish that I get. You seem like you'd be a good dad." With the last statement she smiles and he gets up and moves to a bigger drum set. This last verse we see that she yearns to be a mom and wants to have a child. The men she's with obviously don't want one. She says that sometimes she wishes for a mistake, meaning a pregnancy.
The next scene in the video goes into her (in a wedding dress) and the three men (all in tuxes) walking underneath a helicopter. She is stumbling in her dress and sings the last verse, "Now all those simple things are simply too complicated for my life. How'd I get so faithful to my freedom? A selfish kind of life. When all I ever wanted was the simple things. A simple kind of life." All she wants is a family and a baby or a "simple life," but as we can see in this verse these things are too complicated for her life. If she focused on loving the men she was with instead of only thinking of herself and her life then maybe she would have that simple life she always dreamt of. She asks, "How did I get so faithful to my freedom?" meaning how did she keep trying to be free and fight for herself if all she wanted was to be surrounded by a family.
At the end of the video the woman finds a baby and looks around to the different "husband" characters as if to chose a father. She runs away and hands the baby to her mother. Then walks away.
Using the music perspective we can see the music sounds displacent and sad for the most part with upbeat parts intermixed. It has a release pattern for most of the song, but fades into a few release patterns for added effect. This effect creates a congruent message where the emotion of the song in lyrics follows it in musical tone.
The song is targeted to both women and men. Young girls are targeted because they want to be and look like the girl first portrayed as in love. Mothers and wives are targeted because that is what the girl wants to be so badly in the video. Single women are targeted as well because that's the way the girl ends up. Men are targeted throughout the video mostly to view the woman in the video. At one point shes topless and covered in glitter contributing greatly to the sex drive and appeal to men. I think the video is also appealing to men because it shows how men are pressured to have kids by their significant others.
Some of the potential messages being communicated to the audience within this video may be, the question of having children, the question of being too selfish in a relationship, the sanctity of marriage or perhaps how to pursue the right mate. All in all the potentical implication I see within this video is not to marry who you are unsure of being able to achieve a simple life with. By doing so three times the woman is expressing that by wasting her time on the men that were not right for her she acted selfishly and now doesn't have a family.
